About reaching high AND days where simply surviving is enough

Goals are a way to implement your decisions… simply a tool. Sometimes, a tool is useful for many days in a row. Other times other tools are needed! Dreams are about what you want. Decisions on what to do now do come from dreams. Yet wise decisions come from sifting through lifetime dreams and today’s…

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Got goal distractions?

It’s frustrating when fear distracts me from goals! Practicing achieving small goals helps me figure out what to do next. That’s valuable because I’ve got big dreams and big challenges. It’s a tough combination that requires consistent vigilance. Fear tends to dissipate when I’m intent on something I care about. So I find that it’s…

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Increasing your well-being

Well-being increases when we keep moving forward! Daring to continue to work on what matters to me makes a difference in my feelings of well-being. I like to make a difference in the small ways that are open to me. That includes volunteering in my community. Yes, in many small ways! It adds up from…

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Weird Way To Use Goals To Pinch Obstacles Into New Accomplishments

Say there’s a day when obstacles overwhelm me. Here’s what I do: I dare to peek at recent patterns. I ponder deeply on teeny tiny teensy-weensy little accomplishments in recent days that moved me closer to my goals. Hey, sometimes I’ve got to work hard at that! But I do. Because it lifts me up.…

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The value of re-evaluating goals

When I’m enthusiastic? Hey, I accomplish more. Even rough days! Okay, so it doesn’t work all the time. Some days I start and stop. But, hey, by starting, I exercise the habit of starting! And in any case, I do find it works often enough to make a difference. So, it’s part of my process.…

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This will show you how to Figure Out what to do in life

How do you figure out what to do in life?   What to do now? What’s next?!   It can be puzzling, right?   There’s no algorithm, is there? No recipe book. No 31 flavors store where you might reliably expect to be able to pick your “What’s Next?!”   Even if there was such…

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Getting to times when life flows

It feels good when life flows, doesn’t it?   Flow happens when I’m focused on what fits for me today. Fits in the sense of being what I can do right now. Fits meaning heading me in the direction I want to go.   Habits help me get to flow more readily.   Where does…

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Goals help me make good come of obstacles

Bad stuff is often temporary. When it’s not? I learn to manage it to allow good to come of it.   I do what I can to alleviate one bad aspect or to reward myself.   For example, the bad stuff of feeling overwhelmed happens a lot now. Because I can only do a little…

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Goals in a changing day

Every day’s different. For me now, it’s like my specifications change constantly! I need to adjust day to day to challenges. We all do! How best to adjust? I think about what matters to me. That helps me say, “Do this, not that!” I spend my precious ability to do things on what fits. Recognizing…

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Got goals? Worry can be used as a clue

Worry is a bit of a clue to what’s going on. To how I’m handling things right now. Or how I may not be handling them! What I’m trying to do is to hold up each worry to the light of today. Anything that’s outside of my control is something I’ve got to let go…

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